
Welcome!
Your turn-on is more than a technique — it’s a state of being.
This quiz helps you identify your Core Desire Archetype™ — the emotional blueprint your nervous system craves most in intimacy.
Not just in bed, but in your deepest relationships... and in how you relate to yourself.
Most people try to fix surface-level things — communication, touch, finding the “right” partner — without understanding what they truly need to feel safe, turned on, and fully expressed.
Real connection? It starts in your body.
Before You Begin:
✨ This isn’t about fantasy — it’s about resonance.
Choose what feels true in your body — not what you think you should want, or what’s been socially acceptable.
Reflect on the past 6–12 months:
• What have you been craving in intimacy?
• When have you felt the most alive, relaxed, or desired?
• Even if you haven't fully lived it yet... what feels like a full-body yes?
You may relate to many options — but trust the one that feels like coming home.






I feel you locked in on me, like I’m the only one in the room.


or
I feel your full trust in my lead — like you’re surrendering to me completely. It’s electric… and I rise to meet it.



or
You crave to be fully held — but when you finally open, it can feel like too much for others.




4. You feel the most alive when…





5. In conflict, what do you secretly wish your partner would do?



(Or let me lead with clarity, and trust me enough so you can surrender into the moment.)

Look me in the eyes and say, “I choose you. No matter what.” Let me feel cherished even in rupture.











(Your body feels safe enough to open. What makes that possible?)















(Which of these ignites your body or heart? Whether you’re receiving or initiating, what makes you feel most alive in connection?)










(Imagine receiving this message. Which one makes your chest expand or eyes tear up?).
Let your body respond. These might feel tender, bold, or even hard to admit — and that’s okay.





(Even if it feels too tender or "too much"... what's the deepest longing?)
Let your body respond. These might feel tender, bold, or even hard to admit — and that’s okay.





(Strip away the performance. What’s the emotional truth you desire to come home to?)
Let your body respond. These might feel tender, bold, or even hard to admit — and that’s okay.

























Not at all true | Somewhat true | Neutral | Mostly true | So true for me |
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I want to feel like someone is in awe of me |
Not at all true |
Somewhat true |
Neutral |
Mostly true |
So true for me |
I want to feel like my softness is welcome |
Not at all true |
Somewhat true |
Neutral |
Mostly true |
So true for me |
I want to feel safe enough to fully let go |
Not at all true |
Somewhat true |
Neutral |
Mostly true |
So true for me |
I want to feel the freedom to misbehave |
Not at all true |
Somewhat true |
Neutral |
Mostly true |
So true for me |
I want to feel like sex is a spiritual experience |
Not at all true |
Somewhat true |
Neutral |
Mostly true |
So true for me |
I want to feel like my presence is the gift |
Not at all true |
Somewhat true |
Neutral |
Mostly true |
So true for me |
I want to feel chosen for who I really am |
Not at all true |
Somewhat true |
Neutral |
Mostly true |
So true for me |
I want to feel met in both my power and my tenderness |
Not at all true |
Somewhat true |
Neutral |
Mostly true |
So true for me |

— it's your time to be met.
You long to be cherished, not just loved — to feel like someone’s whole being bows at the altar of yours.
Whether through sweet reverence, poetic presence, or daily acts of loyalty, you come alive when you feel chosen with clarity and adored with consistency.
The Worshipped One — who craves being seen as sacred.
The Chosen One — who yearns to be claimed with devotion.
The Devotional — who melts when love is a shared ceremony.
You don’t just want connection — you want soul-recognition. The kind of love that says, "I see all of you, and I choose you — again and again."
These are the other Core Desires that shape your intimacy blueprint — they matter too, and they may rise depending on the moment, partner, or phase of your life.

but only if you can handle the heat.
You weren’t made for lukewarm love.
You want to feel the fire — the boldness, the raw magnetism that lives between relinquishing control and owning it completely.
You come alive in intensity — when presence is unwavering, consent is sacred, and you're free to let go of responsibility in your surrender…
or feel fully trusted and on top of the world in your power.
✨ In intimacy, you long to feel: Claimed. Powerful. Surrendered. Seen. Safe. ✨
“I feel gloriously taken care of when I surrender — and unstoppable when I lead.”
Your expression might take shape as:
🔥 The Surrendered One — who melts when held with presence, depth, and direction.
🔥 The Powerful One — who thrives in leadership, ownership, and unapologetic turn-on.
🔥 The Unapologetic — who wants to drop the mask and feel free to take up space.
This is your erotic altar: confidence, consent, and the edges of your full expression.
💌 Download your guide to awaken your Power blueprint — and embody intimacy as the wild, sacred force you are.
These are the other Core Desires that shape your intimacy blueprint — they matter too, and they may rise depending on the moment, partner, or phase of your life.
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You’ve carried so much tenderness in your heart, often wondering if anyone would really show up for it.
But your softness is not a burden — it’s a superpower.
You long for love that’s consistent, present, and true — where you’re met in the quiet, not just the highs.
✨ In intimacy, you long to feel: Safe. Seen. Held. Needed. Steady. ✨
"I feel relaxed, seen, and safe — like I don’t have to earn love by holding it all together."
Your expression might take shape as:
🌿 The Nurturer — who finds purpose in care and thrives when truly needed.
🛡 The Safe One — who softens in reliability and emotional consistency.
💗 The Steady Heart — who opens when love feels mutual, attuned, and trustworthy.
You’re not too much — you’ve just been loving in places that didn’t know how to hold all of you.
These are the other Core Desires that shape your intimacy blueprint — they matter too, and they may rise depending on the moment, partner, or phase of your life.
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You don’t just crave pleasure — you crave play.
Your turn-on lives in the spaces between: teasing glances, unspoken dares, the delicious tension of what’s about to happen next.
You come alive when intimacy feels like a game, when curiosity is met with curiosity, and your wild heart is invited to lead.
✨ In intimacy, you long to feel: Free. Desired. Unpredictable. Magnetic. Alive. ✨
"I feel irresistible — like I could seduce the world with a single glance."
Your expression might take shape as:
🎭 The Curious One — who wants to be explored like a secret map.
🌶 The Wild One — who thrives when she’s untamed, seen, and uncontainable.
👠 The Tease — who loves to dance on the edge of the forbidden.
You’re not here to be tamed.
You’re here to spark joy, stir longing, and keep them coming back for more.
These are the other Core Desires that shape your intimacy blueprint — they matter too, and they may rise depending on the moment, partner, or phase of your life.
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I see you, Sacred Sister.
You’re not here for surface connection —
You’re here for union.
When breath becomes prayer.
When presence becomes a portal.
When intimacy opens a door to something beyond the physical.
You come alive when the moment feels sacred — where time dissolves, your heart expands, and energy becomes the language of love.
✨ In intimacy, you long to feel: Deep. Sacred. Timeless. Resonant. Seen beyond the veil. ✨
“I feel like a temple — like presence itself is worship.”
Your expression might take shape as:
🔮 The Mystic — who makes love through breath, gaze, and devotion.
🌕 The Oracle — who craves resonance and soulful recognition.
🌌 The Cosmic One — who finds union in presence, beyond words or form.
When disconnected, you might float too far from your body — chasing divinity while forgetting your own aliveness.
But your truth lives in your body too.
And when you come home to it — intimacy becomes the ceremony.
These are the other Core Desires that shape your intimacy blueprint — they matter too, and they may rise depending on the moment, partner, or phase of your life.
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